“How can this be?”
Luke’s Gospel tells of two births, each one foretold by an angel. Both Zacharias and Mary, in their turn respond to the angel’s news each with their own version of “How can this be?, Because…”
A deacon instructed me to read these replies-to-an-angel and try to hear the speaker’s tone of voice. There must have been a significant difference between Zacharias’ tone and Mary’s because of the difference in outcomes:
Zacharias says in Luke 1:18:
And Zacharias said unto the angel, Whereby shall I know this? for I am an old man, and my wife well stricken in years.
Zacharias’ results in Luke 1:20:
And, behold, thou shalt be dumb, and not able to speak, until the day that these things shall be performed, because thou believest not my words, which shall be fulfilled in their season.
What did Zacharias sound like? Was there doubt in his voice? His reply sounds reasonable enough, but Gabriel rebukes him saying: (19)“I am Gabriel, that stand in the presence of God; and am sent to speak unto thee, and to shew thee these glad tidings.” He sounds a little irritated, doesn’t he? Like a father administering discipline he reminds Zacharias of his position, “…because I’m your father, and this is my house, and since you don’t seem to believe me, I’m taking away your cell phone for nine months, maybe after nine months you’ll believe.”
Mary says in Luke 1:34:
Then said Mary unto the angel, How shall this be, seeing I know not a man?
Mary’s results in Luke 1:20:
For he hath regarded the low estate of his handmaiden: for, behold, from henceforth all generations shall call me blessed.
What did Mary sound like? She does ask “How?” but the angel does not rebuke her and remind her of his position and power, he explains himself:
(35)The Holy Ghost shall come upon thee, and the power of the Highest shall overshadow thee: therefore also that holy thing which shall be born of thee shall be called the Son of God.
Mary must been very courageous to question an angel at all, don’t you think? This one particular question must have been very important to her to get her to speak up. She’s just been given news that would turn her life completely upside down, she must’ve had alot on her mind, her parents, a new baby to worry about. Of everything she now has to think about, the one issue pressing enough to ask the angel about is her virginity.
Mary does not presume that this child will come the natural way even though she’s already espoused to Joseph. If an ordinary woman, already promised in ordinary marriage to a man, was told by an angel that she would conceive a child would she not reasonably presume the natural course of events that lead to conception?
The angel tells that the child will hold the throne of David and reign over the house of Jacob. Joseph is of the House of David, yet Mary does not presume that the child is to be Joseph’s. She is certain enough that the baby is not to be the result of a natural union with Joseph that she uses her one question on this concern.
How shall this be, seeing I know not a man?
With thanks to: A Slice of Infinity: Questioning Gabriel, by Jill Carattini